The AI noted my “flaw”: “You hold yourself to a high standard—a nearly relentless drive to keep showing up for everyone else while putting your own needs on the back burner.” It called it a “healer’s flaw,” a phrase that felt both validating and, oddly enough, comforting. I hadn’t thought to apply the term to myself, but I recognized the truth in it immediately.
It’s no secret that we live in a society where failure isn’t accepted. We’re all expected to be successful, and if we fail, we are encouraged not to talk about it. But here’s an interesting question: Why do some people succeed when others don’t? What separates those who achieve from those who don’t achieve? The answer is the mindset.
